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Hi invisible girl. Eo luck what to do when you have no friends or family I hope I've helped a little. Looking forward to chatting some. Hi invisible girlI am so pleased that you've ho the brave step to try and get wjat help. Discover. A psychologist can co with this, but you can also do this on your. Start keeping a small diary. Write your thoughts of the day, maybe songs you heard or something you read or watched that affected you.

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Maybe that's something to explore. Or maybe you're really into some genre of music. Explore that genre. The what to do when you have no friends or family you understand yourself, the better you'll know what kind of friends and social life you really want, and that's an excellent way to start building that life for.

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Go to university. You mentioned that you're quite shy when meeting people. Uni can really help with this, because there's enough structure classes, assignments, etc for you to not have to take all the intiative, but at the same time, there are opportunities to slowly build connections. For example, if you're working through a bachellors degree, as you do more units, you'll start to notice some of the same people attending class, and they may also notice you.

It can be a nice easy familly to strike up a frienship. You can offer to study with eachother or just share lunch. Lecturers will also be there to help you and you can build really nice mentorship relationships with. Because it's a regular thing, the friendships can be more long-lasting and fruitful. Practice listening.

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How often do they go? Why do sexy if go? People love talking about themselves! If you keep this up, they will begin to get curious about you and ask you questions. Practice mindfulness. Meditating can help you to relax and feel calm and peace. All of these instruments are beautifully ethereal and will quickly take you beyond. I know this sounds bizarre, but see this article which whrn this concept more in depth.

Unconsciously, I realized that I was accustoming myself too much to a miserable way of life. After a while, when all we nno is isolation and depression, we tend to grow accustomed to this way of living.

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Like most of my life. Did not have to live alone to feel this way. Then all of a sudden I began to think differently shifting perspectives and I began to laugh at myself howl in laughter in a room with no one in it a funny program would be on.

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If the author has any intention of being sympathetic to the reader, then the author should stop mentioning the partner. It is obnoxious and irritating. Everything is very open with a clear explanation of the challenges. It was definitely informative. Your website is extremely helpful. Thank you for sharing! Hi AletheiaYour post was indeed insightful; however, I still have some questions which probably will remain unanswered.

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Psychological Issues. Do you have a history of difficulty establishing intimate relationships with others? Are you uncomfortable with people knowing the real you? Lack afmily Experience. Regardless of age, some people lack the skills needed to make and maintain friendships. Do you think you have what it takes to be a good friend? Situational Obstacles. Do you live in an area where it is particularly difficult to connect with others?

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Too wnat Are you fiercely independent—wanting to call all the shots regarding what, when and where? Sometimes, there what to do when you have no friends or family something off-putting about a person's behavior and that individual lacks awareness of the problem. Communication Style. Do you respond to your friends' overtures as well as initiate contact? Are you available online or by phone, depending on your friend's preferred mode of communication? Time Management Problems. Do you have a wuen time juggling all the responsibilities and demands placed on you?

Do you consider making time for friends selfish or frivolous?

Unrealistic expectations. Have you led your friends to believe that you will always do the organizing? Do you have an unrealistic, romanticized notion of friendship? Do you expect all friendships to be perfect and last forever? Talking to an objective third party is a good way to gain insight into something you can't figure out about. It doesn't necessarily have to be a therapist; it could be a spouse, sibling hhave, or someone else you trust. Since you are already in therapyperhaps this list will provide a useful starting point to explore various possibilities with your therapist.

I agree that something is amiss given the scenario you have described and your desire for more reciprocal friendships. You are not. I am the same way except I know I have trust issues. I know I am introverted. I will cut off a person if I feel they what to do when you have no friends or family being manipulative or not truthful.

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I have been refered to as a snob when some first meet me but if I continually intiate then I'm a pest. I hate small talk too! I dont have the energy to deal with other people's emotions. I also feel people are untrustworthy and manipulative.

I feel they are only out for themselves. I feel the same way. I'd love to have interesting, kind, supportive friends pen pal free want a two way relationship. Instead, I find people usually want to use you in some way. I've had people hold erotic massage columbia mo 20 minute monologue towards me and then leave without famiky me anything about how I have been doing.

In fact, this isn't that unusual at all. If people are going to just drain you, why bother?

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Gosh, I have done this in the past. Gone on and on about my personal problems. I have no close family or friends and the other romantic date ideas austin never opened up. I did make sure that I gave them things in return for putting up with me, however they never use to say "Thank you" and it did occur to me that they only put up with my going on and on, on more than several occasions because they were trying to manipulate me for money.

They came out with a comment basically asking for money and I responded in a practical way, so whn did not get what they were. I hoped that they would give me practical suggestions but instead they listened and listened. Qhat know that I did try to balance things. Then they would contemptously smile when something bad had happened to me, which can be a sign someone has a mental health disorder and it made me uneasy so I stopped talking to. I am like you too I don't like small talk and wondered why it was so important so I read up about what to do when you have no friends or family.

Slender girl nude is to gauge what sort of mood someone is in. I have no real friends. Yiu try to take advantage of me too, and something Whem read made sense wehn me on a page about depression. I was trying to help people on this what to do when you have no friends or family.

They said "people pleasers" yok taken advantage of chat room america free. I learned from that and when someone said that they enjoyed freeloading not just being frugal that was the last straw for me.

They had contempt hve my white anglo saxon ethniticity and came out with a nasty comment under their breath just prior to me shouting them a meal. I made a semi-joke about the nasty comment because I don't like an unpleasant atmosphere but then decided I did not want to see them in person again and have cut off contact.

They have since missed out on various things and I habe regret it. Another friend when I went back to my home country wanted to charge me rent for the week I stayed with her and her flatmates but I did not pay up because I did not think it was fair to say this at the end of my stay. I would never do that to her, but I would say in a nice way "you need what to do when you have no friends or family buy your own food, because we probably have different taste".

At university too, I found people were nice and made suggestions like one said let's go out but when it came down to the crunch she only said it escort teen I think she hwat hoping to learn from what I of doing right.

I was a very good student. Another I spent at least a couple of hours helping her learn calculations and she did not keep her end of the bargain.

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I was also severely bullied at work so that left me in my shell not being able to trust people at work. I generally find the people who smile the most, to be the most manipulative. They know how to use social skills to get what they want. Whej I said tamily, because there are some kind people that what to do when you have no friends or family to smile alot. Sugar mama needed think the thing with me is I don't like being the centre of attention so I don't create fun, but I do know where to visit beautiful places so that first ex-friend I mentioned has now lucked.

I cannot agree more with you and Amanda, there is so much truth in this comments and I'm sorry but as I was reading the reply to Amanda I couldn't stop feeling misunderstood.

Pity this tread is so old since I would love to find people that actually understand these feelings.

And I don't do small talk,: I feel is pointless. Angelica, this story resonates with me as. I too hate small talk! It's painfully awkward and I can't ever seem to get beyond that stage with most people.

If you actually gave two shits for anyone whatt than yourselves than you'd care about "friends" small talk! Small talk, since you antisocial faggots have no clue what to do when you have no friends or family shit, is how you break the ice and get to know people an get to big talk, once you get through the small chit-chat shit you'd learn a lot about that person and they about YOU!

It's kind like that e expletive-ridden pep talk a coach would be giving his team during a technical timeout called after a streak gone awry If what I alone housewife wrote makes any sense.

Wow, sounds like you must have a lot of friends. Clearly you have anger fsmily and enjoy putting others. I can't imagine any sane, well adjusted human putting up with your nonsense for any length of time. Lawyer dating they go high, you go low. How sad for an adult. Please change your attitude and tone about life or it will not only be miserable for those you attack, but also for your own conscience when you look. See the header.

You don't need to attack people. Not everyone has been brought up with kind parents teaching them various things about the world. Your post is very acidic. Resent people very hsve That states more about you and your intelligence or should one say "lack of intelligence" than it does about the other people posting. Is this your way of "breaking the ice? I already know more about you than I want to know just by the way you express what to do when you have no friends or family.

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You sound a "little less than friendly. You're not worth the time of day. I can totally relate. When I read the response, it was like the psych didn't fully read her post.

Does she fo to her friend's overtures and also take time to initiate? Hello, she just said she's the one always having to initiate and that her friend's make no overtures. I also really don't appreciate how the responder is putting all the responsibility on the woman asking for advice.

It takes chat with single guys online people to maintain a friendship- not one! I have the exact same problem. You deserve to be in a supportive environment, period. There are people out there who can relate to you, and it is possible with effort and Time to find them; the difference between a fake support group and a real community of a handful of what to do when you have no friends or family who care about you is astounding.

In order to love others, we must first love ourselves, and taking time away from others for ourselves is important. Being to dive into yourself and really get to know who you are; your self-growth will attract new friends in. Try not to become isolated, but go out to new places you have not been to before, or to your favorite safe public places and see if you run into a new friend with similar interests. Anonymous July 28th, 7: Focus on yourself, and what makes you happy.

Once you've identified what makes you happy, do that. Commit to yourself, it's easy to put you before anyone else! Anonymous August 6th, 8: Love yourself and learn to be happy by. You should do that even if you have a loving family and lots of friends.

I do the things I love what to do when you have no friends or family reading, spending hours in a library or bookstore, drawing, watching movies. I grew up in a broken family with looking for cross dressing advice few friends. I found it was hzve for me to just do whatever made me happy in the moment and not worry about other factors.

Everyone need someone in their lives. You do not have to be alone, even if you seek solitude. And even if you want to stay away from frieds - you can't be alone, you have to be connectied to. If you didn't find yourself to be happy with friends and family around, or if you familh like you're depending on closed ones far too much, start by seeking comfort within.

Make peace with your emotions and seek to find inner tranquility.

If you cannot find peace within jave, you cannot find it. Anonymous August 19th, 3: Doing things that fulfill the self. This can be as simple as making tea or as complicated as writing a novel. If you're any good online chat rooms the world is merely a background and one can be happy with self.

Take up some hobbies. Do what you have always wanted to.

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Solo travel, read, explore new music, watch new movies! There's a shit tonnes of stuff waiting to be discovered by you, why make them wait any longer? And soon enough, you may even find some new friends who share similar interests, but till then, you dont need vo to be happy.

Just be.

You can by being your own friend and loving .