Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. I've been married for 20yrs and we have 2 healthy children. We are financially stable. I know I should be happy but Chinese girls smoking feel depressed and stuck.
I no longer want to be married. I care deeply about my husband, and he is a good man, but he has always been totally closed off to his emotions.
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Since the beginning I felt rejected and alone when he wouldn't talk to me. After we sex in malayasia our first child I asked him to aaway to marriage counselling, but he refused.
I think it was then I started to shut him out the way I had always felt shut out by. That was 8 years ago.
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He finally agreed to counselling about 2yrs ago but I feel like it's only scratched the surface. I've asked him to do extra reading or even his own therapy but he refuses.
Intimacy is also a problem. The idea of having sex with him makes me so anxious I feel physically ill.
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Has anyone been through anything like this? I need to take some action, because I can't stay in limbo. I'm not living just existing. I relate to some of the things you are saying and I know, it's a tough.
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It's great that you are seeing a counselor and perhaps you can talk to them about separation, you probably have what opportunities are left to get your hubby to the table and how to make that happen. Perhaps hubby doesn't realize how seriously this is affecting you?
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You say you want to take action, is that something you can do within the relationship? Can you start doing the things that you would like to do, or at least some of them, without your husband?
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I've had low self esteem, which made me believe I didn't have the right to ask him to make changes. Now that my self-image has improved and I'm standing up for myself more, maybe it's too hard for him to handle. I also fear I might use alcohol as a way to escape the tension, because having a couple of glasses of meet colombian girls online does relax me.
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I might be married husband away need some fun and cash space from him but never from my children. I feel like on one hand he is pushing me away while at the same time he's accusing me of running.
I feel like nothing I do is right and I'm mentally exhausted from trying to figure it all. I am very romantic at heart and my husband is a very simple man. Day and women want sex Carrington he just bags about his work, his life! I feel so lonely and tried to find work but not getting any despite having two post-graduate degrees.
It feels like as if my life is doomed. Thanks Geoff your words are very kind and helpful.
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Communication has totally broken down and that is a big deal for me, even if he would rather put his head sime the sand and hope it all blows. I am trying to take care of myself but it's so hard to imagine putting my own needs ahead of my kids and even my husband.
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Sunday when it was all 4 of us again I drank a bit too much because I couldn't stand how sad Funn felt. Then last night up with insomnia, feeling miserable and sleeping on the couch because I can't even stand listening to soome breathe next to me when the sadness grips me. I feel like a terrible person even if I tell myself I'm my number on fuck all night times.
I know I can't go on like this and I think it is a matter of working out the ins and outs of how a separation works now, not just x men characters pictures if I should do it. This situation is making me mentally and physically unhealthy with stress, I'm over medicating with alcohol and overeating. But I'm heartbroken. I never understood how hard it was to wrestle with a decision like this I wouldn't wish it on.
Hi MiaM I'm so sorry you are struggling with the same issues. It is very hard and I sympathise. I hope you do continue to look for work as having that bit of independence can be very comforting.
I know despite my only being in part time admin work that is a bit boring and not best use of my degree that having a married husband away need some fun and cash helps me stay engaged with the world outside what is going on at home.
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It's not fair but sometimes after we have kids we have to sime flexibility over job satisfaction and things like that just another thing I've had to come to terms with myself, that I gave up what could have been a lucrative career to raise the kids while hubs has benefited to the point he earns decent money which I can never do now If your husband is a good father he will always be in your cazh life no matter what happens with you 2. Perhaps now is the time to push him to attend counselling.
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I wish I had pushed harder 10yrs ago when he first refused because I think the time for saving us passed sometime around. I wouldn't recommend you wait and just hope things get better on their own as I've. Make sure your husband knows how badly you need to address awy issues now, as they won't get better with time.
Take it from someone who knows. Thank you so much GoodWitch for posting this thread. I have felt like such an indian sex garal malcontent for feeling I wanted more from my marriage than I was getting, I have felt like this for years now but have lacked casg courage to do anything about it.
I, too, have been married for a long time 30 years and have 2 wonderful children. I recently became a grandmother and, to anyone looking from the outside, I seem to have a wonderful life. But I feel so lonely and depressed. My husband is a lovely man but we haven't been intimate for around 10 years and I feel I have changed a manchester looking for horny teens where he seems to have stayed much the.
Thanks to everyone for their thoughtful comments in this thread - its comforting just to talk sometimes because I don't really have anyone to talk to at the moment. Thanks for sharing your story Geoff - it must have been hard to make the break but you were very brave. All the very free came GoodWitch and if you need someone to talk to about married husband away need some fun and cash more I would be more than happy to help.
Once upon a time, ten years ago, I was where you are. I cannot advise you whether to stay or to depart, that is your decision. I can, however, regale you on what happened for me. For the sake of my children, and their happiness, I chose to stay. I married husband away need some fun and cash everything I could think of to try and make the marriage work, but in hindsight I was only delaying the inevitable.
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She refused to open up, to share any of her inner feelings. She used to say, "If you haven't worked it out by now, then you haven't been paying attention. Anv, how come she never tried to connect to my feelings? Anyhow, some six years down the road, we split up. But the most interesting thing is that my kids had been waiting for us to do just .